Becoming Irresistible
“You just have to love yourself!” chants every self help guru and therapist and cheesy 2010s wall art. My cards say it every time someone asks about romance. Turn inward. Love you. Be your own lover.
Not only is this answer annoying, dismissive, and trite, but it’s also remarkably unclear. Love myself how? With more bubble baths? How is that supposed to bring me actual connection? You might as well have been told to “just pray about it.”
Self love is not flowers and bubble baths (though it certainly can include them). It is complete and total self attunement. It’s integrity. Inner unity. The sensitivity to read and anticipate the subtle signals of the body, the shifts in your desires and needs, and the eagerness to move in concert with them rather than overriding or delaying or ignoring them. It is the kind of devoted attention you might imagine receiving from the gentlest lover, granted toward yourself. It is self commitment and self reverence.
Worship of the divine as it resides inside of you.
Such a degree of integrity creates irresistible coherence in your energy—it turns you into a magnet. You become so completely and unapologetically yourself, that reality bends itself around you. You’ve met people like this before, when they walk into a room you feel them before you see them, or you look at them and think they are so exceptionally beautiful even though you know on some level their features are ordinary. You’re not really looking at their image, you’re experiencing their radiance, and that can only be created from a practice of self devotion.
This class is an 8 week journey into the temple of self love as we worship the divine within ourselves. You will surrender your shame, your bitterness, your self hatred, and your jealousy. You will connect more deeply and intentionally with your body, your needs and desires, your self expression through adornment, and the power of your words, your gaze, your alignment. You will experience the power of your own magnetism and the beauty of your being inside and out. Your tolerance for disrespect and dismissal will reach an all time low, and your self worth a long overdue high.
What you’ll recieve
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Daily short-form video lessons leading you through embodiment rituals for each area of focus. (If you’ve taken other classes with me, this will feel new. Self devotion is a practice, not a concept, we have to show up for it day after day. Don’t worry! They’ll be simple and achievable.)
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Live weekly calls to discuss and explore feelings and discoveries throughout the week and the core teaching of each chapter.
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Supportive community of other self-devotees breaking through shame and owning their beauty and worth. When you cannot see the divine in you, you will see it in your sibling and they will see it in you. We will uplift each other.
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Additional 1:1 coaching support via DM or support call if needed as you navigate any of the shadow aspects of this process.
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A repeatable framework for returning home to yourself any time you feel lost or confused in the future.
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Most importantly, a renewed practice of self devotion and an unshakeable knowledge of your worth.
Is it for me?
Becoming Irresistible is for you if you are:
Ready to end the war with yourself.
Done waiting for a savior to rescue you.
Ready to love yourself with fierce devotion, like an honor, not a chore.
Excited to dive into simple and actionable daily practice.
A weekly overview
At Home in our Bodies: We will hold our bodies with tenderness and sensitivity to its complex and highly intelligent signals. We will nourish them and move them with intention, softening any relationship of control or force, coming into one of respect, reverence, and appreciation.
You Deserve to Feel Good: Attuning to subtle signals of desire and prioritizing pleasure. Cultivating luxury through slowness, focused attention, and listening.
Expression: Projection and amplification of your energy. Cultivating a vibe through adornment and sense memory. In mundane terms: playful self expression; in magic terms: glamour magic!
Bloom: Lean on our plant friends, especially rose, as allies in softening and opening our hearts without losing strength or discernment. Connect more intentionally and deeply with the plants, animals, and people around you. Call in new connections.
Clear Voice: Share the gift of your voice. Drop qualifiers. Say what you want clearly and directly. Say no.
Clear Eyes: Utilize the power of your gaze and attention to expand, amplify, and draw things toward you. Play with telepathy.
Fix your Crown: Walk tall and proud. Move with ease and grace. Find power in slowness. Fill out your form.
Integration and Close.
Class will be held live via Zoom on Sundays at 1pm PST, 4pm EST from February 8th-March 29th, 2026. Replays available.